mummy has been busy taking a good look at Denson everyday that she has no time to blog about Denson's growing up.. haha.. mummy scare that she will forget the days how Denson looks like when she is looking after him.. so everyday even though Denson is cranky, mummy will be very patient to coax him and pacify him..
Mummy is more able to comprehen wat Denson wants thru his actions and cries..
The first few weeks when Mummy was looking after Denson on her own, she is so stressed up cos everyone thinks that Mummy cant do a good job and everyone wants to poke their nose in.. living everyday on a 3hr window isnt fun.. is a challenge to get things done within the 3hrs when many people like to peep into our room to see how Denson is.. Mummy got abit paranoid by these actions.. even till now...
at first, mummy can only feed Denson whenever he cries.. when time is not up, n Denson is crying mummy gets fedup.. Once, Denson cry so much that Mummy cant calm him down.. once mummy put him down, he start cryin again.. mummy got so fedup that mummy shouted at Denson. mummy noes Denson wun understand abit but mummy needs to let out.. mummy gav a slap on Denson's cheeks but felt so guilty after tat.. poor bao bei~
from then on, mummy told herself she needs to hav patience for Denson.. Denson duno anything he can only cry.. he needs lots of caring and love to grow up properly.. since then, Denson is the TOP priority on mummy's mind.. Denson comes FIRST regardless of anything..
mummy always hear the old folks say dun carry baby too much when he is young otherwise he will wan to carry every now n then.. i must say THIS IS VERY WRONG!!! mummy heed their advise and went into the super wrong path.. which ended mummy gav Denson the slap on e cheeks... now no matter wat mummy is doin, if denson wails, mummy will coax him and pick him up for a good comfort hug till he settles down.. n he is so much more cooperative w mummy now.. he enjoys hearing mummy's pumping session cos he noes that wen he got milk to drink.. he no longer fuss when he cant see mummy cos he noes mummy must b busy w something otherwise she will be beside him taking an extra look at him..
a great learning journey w Denson through these mths n days.. on 16 nov, Denson will be going school.. mummy bot Denson a school bag.. hope that Denson will be able to take the change well...
mummy saw Denson's growing up.. Denson has since achieved lots from day 1..
- Denson can sleep on his own after feeding..
- no more fussin at nite..
- smile back at mummy wen they are playin together
- "talkin" to ppl and to himself
- sleep thru the nite w/o waking daddy up for nite feed
- no more crying during wipe dry session
- hold his own pillow to sleep
- suckle on the dummy for awhile and spit it out when he falls aslp
- recognise mummy and daddy
- focus on things
- track item by the sound make..
- denson can grab things especially clothes and hair..
- Denson noes how to watch tv too!
- denson loves sleepin on daddy's pillow
- Denson can recognise daddy's clothes by his smell
- sit quietly on carseat when we travel ard
- look at the camera for pix taking session!!
- Denson can holds his head up on tummy time too!
Denson attended his first wedding banquet at Orchid Country Club.. celebrating Uncle Yoke n Aunite Jennifer most wonderful moments w them..
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